Why Trying Harder to Sleep Is Making You Sleep Worse
Your Oura Ring isn’t fixing your sleep. It could be making it worse. Here’s what Olympic psychologists do instead...
BLUF (Bottom Line Up Front):
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“Orthosomnia” — the obsessive pursuit of perfect sleep scores — is a clinically recognized phenomenon that fragments the sleep it’s trying to improve
Being told you slept poorly tanks cognitive performance even when you actually slept fine (placebo sleep is real)
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Build a 3-part system: consistent wake time, automated wind-down routine, pre-decided contingency plans
The $300 Device That’s Stealing Your Sleep
It’s 11:47 PM. You’re staring at the ceiling doing math you didn’t sign up for.
If I fall asleep right now, I’ll get six hours and twelve minutes. That’s not great but it’s workable. Maybe I should try that breathing thing. In for four, hold for seven, out for—wait, was it seven or eight? Let me check my phone. No, don’t check your phone. The light will mess up your melatonin. Did I respond to that email from Kevin? I’ll do it first thing. But what if he’s already—
And now it’s 11:53 PM. Six hours and six minutes. If you fall asleep right now.
You won’t.
You know what’s keeping you awake? It’s not the stress. It’s not the kid who might wander in at 2 AM asking for water. It’s not even the fact that your body at 42 doesn’t wind down the way it did at 25.
It’s the fact that you care too much about sleeping well.
The Line That Should Stop You Mid-Scroll
In February, the NYTimes ran a great article on the sleep habits of Olympians. In this piece, they highlighted, Dr. Emily Clark a psychologist with the U.S. Olympic and Paralympic Committee. Her job is helping elite athletes perform at the highest level on the planet. And when she talks about the single biggest mistake she sees athletes make with their sleep, it’s not staying up too late or skipping their wind-down routine.
It’s caring too much.
